upgrade cli args

[samelamin]

cli args have been updated based on this release, specifically this pr

summary is below

--rpc--max--payload (replaced by --rpc--max-request-size and --rpc-max-response-size)
--ws--max--out-buffer-capacity
--ws-external (replaced by --rpc_external)
--unsafe--ws--external (replaced by --unsafe-rpc-external)
--ipc--path
--ws-port (replaced by --rpc--port)
--ws-max--connections (replaced by --rpc--max--connections)
--rpc-http (replaced by --rpc-addr)
--rpc-ws (replaced by --rpc-addr)