spl: Upgrade to newest library versions

[joncinque]

Problem

The SPL libraries have been updated to 1.18 and newer, but the monorepo is still using the older libraries.

Summary of Changes

Upgrade them all. The main changes are:

• token-2022's transfer fee instruction is parsed separately
• need to import token-2022's new BaseStateWithExtensionsMut trait
• associated-token-account uses borsh v1
• patch more crates for downstream builds

Note that we're still using the older version of the built spl-token-2022 because the newest version is still under audit.

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 83.33333% with 1 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.9%. Comparing base (b28792b) to head (50e466f).
Report is 6 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage    81.9%    81.9%   -0.1%     
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+ Hits       190209   190235     +26     
- Misses      41958    41984     +26     

[CriesofCarrots]

Thanks for handling all the downstream stuff! I kind of threw that branch of mine together, and then let it fall by the wayside.

[joncinque]

Sorry, there was a merge conflict, can I get another approval?

[joncinque]

CI appears to be failing now with the same error as microsoft/linux-package-repositories#130 -- I'll wait a little bit to see if it gets resolved, otherwise we can add the suggested patch