Implement do_put_statement_ingest handler in FlightSqlService

[djanderson]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #6124.

Depends on #6133.

Rationale for this change

This implements the handler for the new CommandStatementIngest message defined in Arrow Flight SQL version 17.0.

What changes are included in this PR?

The generated CommandStatementIngest from #6133 is exposed as a public member of the arrow_flight sql module and the FlightSqlService trait is updated with a handler for that new command.

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes, the trait FlightSqlService has a new method, do_put_statement_ingest.

This PR should be tagged api-change.

[alamb]

Thank you @djanderson 🙏

I wonder if you could also add a test for this code to show all the plumbing is hooked up correctly

Perhaps you could follow the model in https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/blob/master/arrow-flight/tests/flight_sql_client.rs (thanks to @lewiszlw for setting up that pattern)

[alamb]

Marking as draft as I think this PR is no longer waiting on feedback. Please mark it as ready for review when it is ready for another look

[alamb]

BTW when you next get a chance to work on this PR, can you please change it so it targets the master branch rather than the 53.0.0-dev branch? We are now making changes on main for the next release

[djanderson]

@alamb of course.

I'm working on it, I'll open a PR against master tomorrow.

[alamb]

It appears that github automatically closes the PR when the target branch is deleted -- sorry about that