Upgrade golangci-lint

[alarso16]

I forgot during my last review that we also need to update CONTRIBUTING.md and README.md and the docstring on go.mod and possibly our golangci. See 1ecddc7 as an example.

Originally posted by @joshua-kim in #4304 (review)

You can see the change log here: https://golangci-lint.run/docs/product/changelog/

There are new linters that maybe should be added, as well as extra parts of other linters. noctx has many changes, but #4163 is working to resolve this

Initial recommendations after looking at the change log:

• revive's unnecessary-format and enforce-switch-style
• New linter embeddedstructfieldcheck

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