[Fix] Fix deform_conv.py for torch_npu v2.1

[shun001]

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Motivation

fix deform_conv.py for torch_npu v2.1.

Modification

fix deform_conv.py for torch_npu v2.1.

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Does the modification introduce changes that break the backward-compatibility of the downstream repositories?
No.

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[Ginray]

/lgtm