feat(auto-instrumentation-node): add options for serviceinstance

[maryliag]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• Follow up from:
• feat(resources): implements service.instance.id opentelemetry-js#4608
• feat(sdk-node): add serviceInstanceIdDetector to NodeSDK opentelemetry-js#4626

Short description of the changes

• Add service instance ID detector to the list of possible detector on auto instrumentation for node

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.47%. Comparing base (dfb2dff) to head (6c1c1ab).
Report is 92 commits behind head on main.

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...tapackages/auto-instrumentations-node/src/utils.ts	98.95% <100.00%> (+0.17%)	⬆️

... and 27 files with indirect coverage changes

[maryliag]

Note: will wait for #2101 to get merged first, because the values on test will need to be updated to account for both changes.

[blumamir]

Note: will wait for #2101 to get merged first, because the values on test will need to be updated to account for both changes.

Thanks @maryliag , #2101 is merged, and I think this one is ready to merge as well after you apply the update to tests🙏

[maryliag]

Thanks @blumamir! I updated the tests