feat(instr-grpc): update semconv to 1.27

[JamieDanielson]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• updates Implement stable http semantic conventions #4897

Short description of the changes

• use new ATTR_* for stable http/net attributes
• start adding logic for opt-in options

Question: Should we be using ATTR_* from incubating, or keep using SEMATTRS_*? Asked on http server PR

TODO

• OTEL_SEMCONV_STABILITY_OPT_IN
• ATTR_NET_PEER_NAME => ATTR_SERVER_ADDRESS || ATTR_CLIENT_ADDRESS from stable
• ATTR_NET_PEER_PORT => ATTR_SERVER_PORT || ATTR_CLIENT_PORT from stable

Type of change

Please delete options that are not relevant.

• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• This change requires a documentation update

How Has This Been Tested?

• unit tests

Checklist:

• Followed the style guidelines of this project
• Unit tests have been added
• Documentation has been updated

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 56.00000% with 11 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 94.53%. Comparing base (f8ab559) to head (5d949bc).
Report is 386 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...emetry-instrumentation-grpc/src/instrumentation.ts	56.00%	11 Missing ⚠️

❌ Your patch status has failed because the patch coverage (56.00%) is below the target coverage (80.00%). You can increase the patch coverage or adjust the target coverage.

Additional details and impacted files

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... and 270 files with indirect coverage changes

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[JamieDanielson]

closing in favor of #5653